Attraction often takes precedence in South Asian dating, overshadowing deeper qualities like shared values and emotional connection. This dynamic mirrors broader societal trends, where internet culture and true crime media often glamorize appearances, even in troubling contexts. Using the bizarre case of Luigi Mangione—a murder suspect whose viral photo in a kurta sparked misplaced admiration—this post unpacks the perils of superficial judgments in dating and beyond. From the allure of physical beauty to cultural fluency as a status symbol, we explore why looking beyond appearances is essential for meaningful relationships and a more discerning society.